I’ve been a big fan of Dabito’s blog and photography since I first discovered him almost a year and a half ago. His work constantly inspires me, and his fleeting moments are particularly captivating. For some time now, I’ve been wanting to go back to sharing more photography in this space and so, inspired by Dabito’s fleeting moments series, I’ve decided to start my own here on this blog. Basically, it is what it says it is. Moments that are fleeting. As illustrated by light and shade. My hope is that this series will challenge me to look more closely at the world around me.

Tomorrow is Mother’s Day, and though it is bound to be a joyous day for many, it will also be a day of sadness for many. For those who’ve lost their mothers or who’ve lost children or who aren’t able to bear children, tomorrow will surely be a difficult day. I remember all too clearly my first Mother’s Day after Cameron died: it was heart-wrenching. And even five years on, the ache of knowing that one is missing still remains.

And so tomorrow, I shall shed my tears for Cameron.

Tomorrow, I will tell my mum how much I love her.

And tomorrow, I shall hold my four boys a little closer and cherish them all the more.

May your weekend be filled with light and love, my friends.

(Linking up with Em.)

Made me smile…

…teapots on a wall / my milkshake drinker / the softest baby hoodie / two amazing cafes

What’s made you smile this week?

p.s. Thanks for all your wonderful response to the workshop! I’m super excited for it. As for my birth story, today didn’t quite go as I’d planned but I’m definitely on the home stretch. I can’t wait to share it with you guys.

Today I’m pretty excited to announce that I’ll be one of the instructors taking part in the The Phone Photography Project, hosted by Big Picture Classes (BPC). Basically, this is a month-long workshop aimed at helping you to take better photos with your iPhone or Android camera. In other words, it’s all about improving your phoneography skills! What’s more, you will also learn strategies to get those photos off your phones and into your memory-keeping workflow more quickly and effectively. A total of 32 awesome instructors are taking part in this online workshop – many of whom you probably already know from the blogging world.

Here’s what you can expect from the workshop:

  • Daily smartphone photography challenges
  • Dozens of tips and tricks from the pros for taking better photos with your phone
  • A handbook of 60+ photography app reviews for iPhone and Android, so you know which are worth your time and money
  • Dozens of project ideas for getting photos off your device and into your world
  • Interaction with 32 experienced iPhoneographers and Androidographers, and hundreds of fellow students in a private classroom and on Instagram
  • Giveaways, contests, discounts and bonus downloads!

I’ve said it time and time again – my mobile phone camera is the camera I use the most, and over 98% of the photos I include in my Project Life albums are taken with my iPhone. So it goes without saying how happy I am to be a part of this course, as I think it’s totally worth investing time and energy into learning how to take awesome photos with your mobile. After all, it’s the camera you’re bound to have on you all the time.

If you’re at all interested in registering for The Phone Photography Project, consider doing it sooner rather than later as it’s available now for a special introductory price of US$39.

Happy Thursday, my friends!

p.s. Tomorrow, I’m hoping to share my birth story here on the blog. There, I said it. Hopefully this will actually force me to finish writing it!

Did you know that last Saturday was National/International Scrapbooking Day? To celebrate, the 2013 Project Life Creative Team shared their favourite tips and layouts in this video which you can see on Becky’s blog. I can’t bear to watch my bit (seriously do not like seeing myself on camera), but I loved seeing the other lovely ladies! Apparently I have an Australian accent, but I’ll let you be the judge. Anyway, as the video clip was due just a week after I came out of the hospital with Edward, I had neither time nor headspace to actually share a useful tip. So to make up for it, I thought I’d share ten (actually, eleven) tips in this post about how to keep Project Life stress-free, easy and, therefore, fun!

1) Just do it. Try not to over-think the process, or the final result. Remember that if you really don’t like a spread, you can always re-do it later on. Chances are, a few weeks down the track, you’ll probably forget about whatever qualms you had about a certain page or layout and instead, you’ll simply be thankful for the fact that you actually documented your precious memories.

2) Keep it simple. You don’t have to use a multitude of embellishments to make your pages special. The whole point of Becky’s core kits (and mini kits) is to take the work out of it for you. Choose your favourite photos from the week, choose the cards from the kit(s) you have that work best with the colours in your photos, do some journalling (by hand or digitally), print your photos (and cards if you’re working digitally), and slip them into the pockets! At the end of the day, all you really need are images and words. Isn’t that what memory keeping is all about?

3) Allocate time each week to work on the previous week’s layout. This is one of the best ways to turn your Project Life efforts into a weekly habit! Work out how much time you take approximately to complete one week’s layout from beginning to end. Then try to schedule in that amount of time during the week. Maybe it’s when you have a day off from university, or maybe it’s during the evening when the kids are asleep, or maybe it’s over the weekend sometime when your partner is at home to help with the children. If you don’t have one big block of time, then you could try scheduling two smaller blocks of time. For me, I use Monday evenings to select photos, edit them where necessary and add my journalling/text directly onto the photos. I also layout any inserts I plan to include during that time. On Wednesday evenings, I print out the photos and slip them into the page protectors. This way, I only have to focus on one part of the entire process at a time, and therefore more inclined to dive into it.

4) Don’t stress about nailing your ‘style.’ Rest assured it will evolve over time. In fact, I don’t think it’s realistic to develop a ‘perfect’ style and expect it to always remain the same. Your style will change as you change, as you learn different techniques and as your photography style changes. I’ve only been doing Project Life for over a year, and I’ve noticed that my pages now look and feel quite different to when I first started. But I’m okay with that, because I know that my style a year ago was a true reflection of me at the time. In fact, I like the fact that my pages looked different back then – it makes me feel all the more nostalgic for that period in my life and our family’s life. I’m sure that in a year’s time, my style will be different to what it looks like now, and that’s good too.

5) Don’t compare your layouts to other people’s layouts. Sometimes there can be a fine line between being inspired by other people’s work and having it negatively impact on your confidence in your own memory keeping efforts. Be inspired, for sure, but don’t let it leave you feeling bad about what you’re doing. Remember, your style is your own, and should be a reflection of who you are.

6) Don’t worry too much about taking ‘perfect’ photos. A photo doesn’t have to be ‘perfect’ in a technical sense for it to be a powerful photo. Some of my favourite photos are blurry and out of focus. Focus instead on capture the moment. After all, it’s those moments that will tell the story in years to come.

7) Use your phone camera and don’t feel bad about it. I know I say this a lot, but my iPhone camera is my favourite camera, over and above my DSLR. It’s the one I have with me all the time, which means it’s the one that allows me to capture moments as they happen. Plus, the quality is great, and all the wonderful apps available mean you can have your favourite photos processed/edited even before they hit your computer. I’m not saying don’t use your DLSR, but what I am saying is that you shouldn’t feel like your layouts are somehow inferior if most of your photos are taken with your phone camera.

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Around here

This week Pete and Angus returned to preschool. I was sad to see them go, but happy to know that they were returning to a caring and familiar environment that is aimed specifically to help them grow, learn and develop. I love it when they come home to show us all the goodies they made under the guidance of their teachers. On one hand, the minimalist in me flinches at the amount of stuff they do bring home (yes, I shall admit to that), but on the flip side, I totally appreciate what a joy it is to see the artwork that they’ve created, and to observe the look of pride on their faces.

Pete went back first on Monday, and Rick and I were both pleasantly surprised when he did so without any reluctance whatsoever. My little boy is definitely growing up. As for Angus, his first day back was with Pete on Wednesday, and according to their teachers, Angus was the perfect older brother and the two of them had a blast together. Talk about making a mama’s heart sing. Part of me wishes they had more than just a day a week together at preschool, but I also know it’s good for them to form and build friendships with other children as well.

Back at home, I’ve been enjoying cuddles whenever I can with Edward Bear, who continues to be a little bundle of joy. He’s drinking like a machine and Rick is convinced his cheeks are plumper than they were a week ago. He’s also been napping and sleeping quite well, so really, he’s awesome.It’s definitely been an adjustment to go back to three hourly feeds after having such a solid daily routine for almost a year, but I think I’ve gotten back into the rhythm of it all. (I have to confess, though, that I’ve been unashamedly re-acquainting myself with some daytime television during the midday feed, which for two days in a row this week happened to be The Bachelorette.) Mind you, I wouldn’t be coping half as well if it weren’t for Rick, who very happily helps me by giving Bear at least two of his bottles during the night. My husband is seriously the best, and I am eternally grateful for him.

As for Jamie, he has been nothing but wonderful with Edward. He’s completely moved on from his brown cot, and he is so patient with me when I’m having to hold or feed his younger brother. In fact, on Wednesday this week when it was just the three of us, I’m quite certain I dozed off on and off for forty minutes as I was attempting to get Bear to finish his bottle (yet another glorious confession), during which time Jamie simply played at my feet with cars, trucks and tractors all by himself with no complaints whatsoever. Part of me still misses and yearns for that time not so long ago when Jamie was my tiniest, but I am also in awe as I watch him come into his own as an independent and capable little boy.

And speaking of boys growing up, my goodness do they eat a lot of bread! I can’t even begin to fathom how much bread we are going to go through when they are teenagers. Pete alone, I’m sure, will be eating a loaf a day all by himself, seeing as he asks me for toast every hour or so when he’s at home (and he’s only three!). Either we start a trust fund now or we’re going to have to teach them all how to bake their own bread…

What were some of the highlights of your week?

1) Edward Bear’s baby book

Despite what I wrote in this post about using store-bought baby books for their ease and simplicity, I’ve actually decided to go down a different route for Edward Bear. One of the biggest qualms I’ve always had about the pre-made baby books is that I honestly don’t think my boys are going to care about the movies, music, etc. that were popular on the day they were born. In fact, when I started having to go online whilst in hospital to ‘research’ what the current fashion trends were (that’s how out of touch I am), I came up with the perfect alternative solution: I would put together my own baby book using journalling cards from the Project Life Baby Edition Core Kit and this DIY album by kikki K. Whilst the Baby Edition Core Kit includes a host of cards with similar prompts to what you would find in a standard baby book, the big advantage is that I get to pick and choose which ones I want to include! Anyway, I have my materials on my desk all ready to go – I just need to find a block of time one evening or during the boys’ daytime nap one day to actually lay out all the cards I want to use and decide on the photos I want to include. I’ll try to share my progress here in a few weeks time.

2) Edward Bear’s thank you cards

Historically, I have always been quite slack when it comes to writing thank you cards. In fact, if memory serves me correctly, I think I wrote our wedding thank you cards on the weekend of our first wedding anniversary! Nowadays, however, I figure that I can’t really afford to keep building a backlog of thank you cards that I need to write. So in an attempt to become more efficient in this area, my latest approach is to write thank you cards immediately, rather than to put it off. So the night after I was thrown a surprise baby shower by ladies from our church, I turned off The Good Wife (which was a lot harder than it sounds) and sat down to write more than a dozen thank you cards. As we’ve received additional gifts for Edward Bear, I’ve been leaving the gifts on my desk until the thank you cards are written before I allow myself to put them away. This way, it gets done almost straight away and nobody falls through the cracks (I hope not, anyway).

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I’m also currently working on three photo books which I decided to ‘bump’ forward from last month and just last week, I sorted through all of Pete and Angus’ preschool artwork from Term 1 to make room for Term 2.

What have you been working on in your spare time?

Tonight…

Tonight I am weeping for our friends who have just found out that their baby has died. It is the worst kind of news, as there is nothing more terrible than a parent losing their child.

My heart is broken, simply broken, for them.

I know what lies ahead of them tonight. I know what lies ahead of them tomorrow. I know what lies ahead in the weeks, months and years to come.

What does a friend do at a time like this?

Cry with them. Grieve with them. Pray for them.

And that is what I shall be doing tonight.

“Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep.” Romans 12:15

Edward turned two weeks yesterday. It’s weird to think that he was only born fifteen days ago. Already I can’t imagine life without him. He’s been feeding hungrily and sleeping quite well. When the early childhood nurse visited us a week ago and weighed him, she had me worried as he’d only put on 20 grams since leaving hospital five days earlier. But since then, he’s definitely become slightly plumper and with all the milk he’s drinking, I’m quite certain he’s doing okay. The other boys have completely accepted him into the family, and they’ve had no problems at all with me spending so much time feeding their littlest brother. Even Jamie seems to understand and is happy to wait till I finish giving Edward his morning bottle before insisting on his own cup of milk.

A few people have asked me who Edward looks like the most. Even though he reminds me of all four of his brothers, I definitely think he looks the most like Angus at the same age. In fact, I was just looking through Angus’ newborn photos and the resemblance is simply uncanny. He’s fairer than Angus though, so it’ll be interesting to watch how Bear changes and develops as he gets older. For now, I am loving how teeny tiny he is. The newborn stage is just so precious. I know from past experience that it simply flies by. So even though I’m tired almost every hour of every day, I’m doing my best to soak it all up and to cherish every moment…

I’m still loving the concept of A Day in the Life. I’ve been choosing a different day of the week each time, so that over the course of the year, I can capture the variations in our daily routines depending on what day of the week it is. For March, I decided to capture the rhythm of our Saturday. For most families, Saturday marks the beginning of the weekend, but for us, it marks the beginning of our week, as Rick’s day off is actually Friday.

Saturday usually begins with a morning at home – Rick works from his office while I watch the boys as they play. Sometime before lunch, we head up to church to set up for Sunday and afterwards, it’s off to the local shops for sultana buns and babycinos (or chocolate milk) for the boys. Then it’s home for the boys’ nap time, during which Rick will continue to do some work. In the afternoon, we generally try to have some family time together before the daily dinnertime/bedtime routine commences, and then in the evenings when the boys are asleep, Rick keeps prepping for church and I enjoy some time to myself.

This particular Saturday, however, was Easter Saturday. The boys were rather exhausted and didn’t wake up till almost 4pm or 5pm in the afternoon. When they all finally came to (I almost couldn’t wake Angus up), we decided to drive down to Dee Why for milkshakes at our favourite cafe. We sat outside with a direct view of the beach, and the boys enjoyed colouring in with the crayons that were on offer. Afterwards, we took a stroll along the beach before whisking the boys home for a quick dinner of ham and porridge. Later that night, Rick prepared one of our favourite meals – crispy skin salmon with soba noodles and bok choy. (I feel hungry just thinking about it!)

To keep it simple, I used the same 8×8 collage template that I used for the February edition of A Day in the Life. I merely chose my favourite 24 photos, processed them with VSCO Film in Aperture then dropped them into the template and changed the day and date in the circle. I also used the some layout for the journalling, though I changed it slightly to fit a 8×10 page protector (instead of an 8×8 one) as I had more words this time around. In terms of my method for taking photos and the approach I took for the journaling, you can read about it here. Essentially, I wrote down what happened during the day hour by hour using Simplenote on both my laptop and my iPhone.

This is what the Day in the Life inserts look like in our Project Life album. Like I said before, I think doing a Day in the Life once a month is such a wonderful idea, and I plan on keeping it up for the rest of the year. By scheduling it monthly in my calendar, and by using the same design templates, it means that I do it automatically and I don’t have to keep re-inventing the wheel.

You can read all my Day in the Life posts here.

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A Day in the Life is a memory-keeping concept started by the talented Ali Edwards. You can read more about it here on her blog.

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“A portrait of my children, once a week, every week, in 2013.”

Edward: Looking teeny tiny amongst his older brothers.
Jamie: Loves his new dressing robe from Nan.
Pete: Keeps getting bitten by mosquitoes at night, poor thing.
Angus: Increasingly agile when it comes to getting on and off the top bunk.

The boys love their bedtime with daddy. Most of the time, they’re clamouring for his attention as they all want daddy to help with their clothes, their teeth and their block-building. Other times, they like to jump on Rick’s back at the very same time. It’s quite amusing to watch. This was in fact a rare moment of quiet and stillness as they all listened to daddy read from a story book that Pete had chosen. Edward seemed to fit right in. Needless to say, our hearts are full.

You can see all the other posts here.

(Linking up with Jodi.)