My mum always cooked from memory, never from anything that was written down. She’d learnt recipes from my grandmother as well as her older sisters. My mum would never consider herself a great cook, but to me, she is. The best, in fact. After all, she is the one who cooked for me as I was growing up, and so it is her food that brings me the ultimate comfort. Even now, when I get sick or when I am down, it is my mum’s food that I yearn for the most.
When I was about sixteen, I started shadowing my mum in the kitchen and writing down her recipes for all my favourite dishes. During that time, I discovered that her memory was like a treasure trove – full of delicious recipes that I knew I needed to keep alive. And so I scribbled them all down into a cheap, pink notebook that I’d grabbed from the newsagent. Childish handwriting and all. But though the notebook may appear shabby, it is one of my most prized possessions.
And so friends, I hope you’ll enjoy these recipes which I’m going to start sharing here on my blog. This is the food from my childhood. This is the food that makes me happy. This is the food that forms a part of who I am.
These are from the heart.
First up is the best beef stir fry ever.
What you will need: Beef skirt / soy sauce / cornflour/ salt / sugar / sesame oil / oil
According to my mum, beef skirt is the best cut for stir fry. However, if you try to purchase this from a western butcher, they will charge you an arm and a leg for it. So my advice is to track and track down an Asian butcher near you. They sell beef skirt for almost half the price.
Slice the beef skirt up thinly using the butterfly method. Add a spoonful of cornflour, a spoonful of sugar, a few splashes of light soy sauce as well as dark soy sauce, and a splash of sesame oil (I’m afraid there are no exact measurements to be specified here – mum always just added amounts based on her instinct and experience). Mix the beef and the marinade until beef is evenly covered. Add a splash of water along with some oil, and mix once more. The longer you can allow the beef skirt to marinate, the softer and more tender the beef will be. My mum used to leave it to marinate overnight whenever possible.
Heat up your wok or frying pan until it is very hot. Over this high heat, lay out the pieces of beef skirt as flatly on your wok or pan as possible. Even though this is called a “stir fry,” the best results are actually produced by not stirring the beef around. Once the beef looks like it’s almost cooked through, turn each piece over carefully and allow the other side to cook through too. Remove from your pan or wok.
This beef stir fry is best served with chinese broccoli (otherwise known as gai larn or kai lan), choi sum or bok coy. My mum used to pick whatever looked the freshest from our local Asian grocery store, but these days you can easily buy these Asian vegetables from your favourite supermarket. Here, Rick has added red capsicum to the bok choy for some extra colour (plus, we always have spare capsicum in our fridge, I’m not sure why).
And of course, rice. Or if you’re short on time, cook up some rice noodles. Either way – this is seriously the best beef stir fry you’ll have in a very long time. Even our boys love it. Now, that’s saying something, right?
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Yum – that looks great. Do you think adding garlic to the marinade would work as well?
For an added garlic flavour, mum would sometimes heat up the oil until it was really hot, then throw in a few cloves of garlic to ‘break out’ the wok (as she called it). You could probably also dice up some garlic and add it directly to the marinade too but my mum never did that. As I’m not a chef myself, I’m not sure what the difference in flavour would be!
Ronnie xo
Oooo yum… I love trying new recipies! Hope I get the splash amounts right :)
Thanks for sharing your treasured recipies xxx
ps. love all your favourite columns on the side bar… great images!
I know – I wish I could give more accurate “splash” amounts, but it’s the kind of recipe where you go on gut and instinct. Happy to share and keep my mum’s recipes alive around the world!
Ronnie xo
p.s. I’m a little obsessed with my sidebar buttons too, if I’m to be honest. Glad you like them! :)
Oh how delicious!! I really should get some of my mom’s recipes down on paper and try to master them myself :-)
Yes, yes, do! Mum’s recipes are usually the best.
Ronnie xo
Oh my goodness. This sounds so delicious. Mom recipes are the best, aren’t they? I’m loving learning more from mine! :)
PS: Thank you for your lovely and thoughtful comment on my Equal Records post – it brought a smile to my face!
Aw man, I would so love to learn some homegrown Japanese recipes. Whenever Rick and I go out for a date night, we’re usually headed to a Jap place. But I bet there’s nothing like home cooked Japanese food…
Ronnie xo
Yum Yum this looks good! Will have to try it.
Replicating mums cooking is so important and why I have it as part of my Life List!
If you do, let me know how you go!
Yes, absolutely. Part of me wishes I’d spent more time doing so when I still lived at home. It’s great to have you here again, Sara!
Ronnie xo
Yay! I’m so glad you’ve started this new series. I adore Chinese food but as a coeliac I have to be careful of any type of food I order in. But I have no idea how to cook authentic Chinese food myself. SO, this is wonderful to be now be able to make something yummy and gluten free. All I need to do is switch up the soy sauce to a gluten free variety and I’m there! Thanks so much for sharing your precious recipes!
Thanks for giving me the encouragement to do so Jo! I would really love to know how you go, okay?
Take care,
Ronnie xo
Looks very delicious!! :)
It was VERY yummy. My husband has learnt a lot of mum’s recipes amazingly well. He is a crazy talented man. Thanks for visiting my blog, Debie, looking forward to checking yours out too.
Ronnie xo
Yum! Looks good. We’ll have to try this recipe!
Yay!
Ronnie xo
Oh, yum – sounds and looks delicious! I love the thought of your pink notebook with your young girl’s note! Double fun! Looking forward to more from the pink notebook.
It definitely sticks out like a sore thumb (I don’t think I own anything else that is pink nowadays), but gosh it’s precious.
Ronnie xo
wow ronnie, this looks so yummy! i love anything with soy sauce and sesame oil in it :) now i can find comfort in your mom’s food too! i have to say, your family eats well. everything always looks so delicious!
Haha, I’m the same re: soy sauce and sesame oil!
Ronnie xo
How lovely. I, too, often long for my mom’s food when I’m especially missing her. I wish I had thought to shadow her in the kitchen and document her recipes when I still lived at home. Now I just call her when I have questions, but having a notebook with everything documented would be wonderful.
I’ll have to try this stir fry recipe!
Hi Dottie,
It’s so lovely to have you here – thanks for visiting.
There are still lots of recipes I want to learn from my mum. It will be a work in progress for many more years, I think.
Ronnie xo
Thanks for sharing Ronnie! Looking forward to trying this next week. I’m not a bad cook but I seem to always mess up stirfries so fingers crossed with your mums recipe I manage some success.
x laura
No problems – let me know how you go!
Ronnie xo
This is so nice! I can’t say I’ve really made an effort to learn any recipes from my parents though, I usually tend to go for Western food over Chinese… to their despair, haha.
LOL, Jane! Though I’ve seen you (on your blog) eating that occasional bowl of ramen, have I not…? :)
Ronnie xo
Mmm that really looks delicious, and I’m usually not a big beef eater.
Oh yummmm! Sold!
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